How to Chat with an Unknown Person with your Cool and Calm Mood

From where are you- or never mind may I help you the prima mood wonderful queries? This is very simple quench when you see someone newer. Somehow you try your highest to be intimate with that everyone and use to try to know a series of things by an effective talking and notwithstanding.

It may be a good stuff when your effort eg communication skill is time and place oriented-when it is just not only talking rather a gigantic chance to enter an endless mission of twice. Now the following steps may effective in reaching a good chat with an unknown one.


Watch first

You should firstly watch the person and read his/ her attitude whether it may go a chat or not. Unnecessarily, don’t start the conversation with the person. If the person is busy- let him/her only bow to you.

Many of us think that it may be a conversation with the person willingly and they use to advance to do so and due to misconception-it turns into a fake and fruitless thing. The so-watching mood of your new friend decides whether that is possible or not.

Greet your friend

Greet your new friend softly and if the person is ready to speak both of you may advance thereto. Greetings may be according to the hours and as a first meeting respect your new one and avoid talking hidden things of both of you.


Follow on the marital status and age of the very one during the verbal communication. Just ask politely the newer one. Try to say something common and don’t go so deep to the contrary.

Avoid overstating

Avoid overstating in chat; keep your idea in a fixed matter and let the talking more effective and subject oriented-nevertheless-too much explanation may ruin the purpose of verbal contact-also it hampers tolerance of your newer friend and without result, it turns into a fake stuff.

Be clear

According to need- let the pattern easy and clear. Your first friend may be tough to you –simply listen carefully him/her and then reply. When you miss something begging pardon ask for a repeat and politely avoid if anything unexpected from the person.


Don’t debate

When it appears a dilemma before both of you don’t debate rather give him/her room and let the relation be matured and wait till then. Usually, a new friend may have a lot of misconception and wrong values –don’t try to remove those at first appearance rather wait until your relationship is bosom and more matured.

Seek permission

If you want to say something special seek permission and if he/she doesn’t disagree you may express your opinion and here don’t hurt your new or unknown friend by talking impious terms and farce thing, on the other hand, wouldn’t be safe for a perfect friendship. As much as you can be sober with the person

Offer something

If you can offer a fine gift and pursue the person for accept and it may work very direct and you are just so near to him/her then. Just do that as a courtesy. Meantime, you may exchange your wish by doing so for the person.


Let it be immortal

When chatting- your unknown friend makes it an impressive and accurate one. Only with an open mind make it immortal at least- try heartedly. Just appreciate him/her.

Somehow he/she is just beside you on a plane or train or maybe a situation enforces to meet you together make the chat simple and effective and let it be a good and memorable friendship. Who knows- your nice chat with an unknown one may open the door of an event what you are looking for a long time.



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